Question by ariesalways411: Several wedding questions….TIA?
Small not far away outside wedding maybe.
Interested in Put n Bay and Hocking Hills- Ohio. Im also in Ohio, Akron. I have a small family and then I also have two young kids. Not too many friends. So Im sure not too many people would be able/willing to travel to ethier place. Should I still invite? With an outside wedding – Is there a back up place/plan if theres really bad weather? Do we need to have a reception. It will be small, I would be happy even if its just family. Where would a small reception be? Do we need a wedding party? (but my kids would be flower girl/ring boy) With bridemaid/maid of honner – I do have a sister but I think Id rather a friend instead if I must. Is that ok. I dont want to hurt sister, When I was 16 she had me as a bridemaid when she married her ex and I think it was just so I was involved. So I dont know if I have to repay that back. With the ceramony being outside do we still get music?
Answer by Lady Liberty
You can do whatever you want.
It would probably hurt your sister’s feelings if she was not your bridesmaid–so either opt out or have two, I think. Don’t think of it as “repayment.”
You can have music at the ceremony or not. Since you’re not having a huge wedding, I think hiring someone to play the violin or cello would be quite beautiful if you wanted it.
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